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Renew Your Love at Thornbury Castle!

Thornbury England 

August 25 -30, 2024


Your relationship deserves first class tender, loving care and the luxury of time to nurture a loving connection. Even if you have been struggling in your relationship, you can find a new way forward by engaging with this internationally renowned program that is easy to learn and produces rapid shifts back into connection. 


  • Break the destructive pattern that feels like groundhog's day.
  • Develop increased compassion and understanding for your partner.
  • Renew the passion and pleasure in your relationship. 
  • Discover how emotional healing can occur in your relationship. 
  • Practice new behaviors with your partner in privacy.
  • Discover the root of your conflict pattern and what to do about it.  
  • Recapture the love, laughter, and joy with enhanced closeness! 
 

The Getting The Love You Want Couples Retreat & Workshop is a journey from conflict to connection. At the end, you'll leave together with new insights into how you can continue to create a healthy and fulfilling relationship long after you leave. Have access to ongoing support and fellowship in a community of just those who attended. This workshop concludes with a commitment renewal or a ceremony to share your new relationship vision (your choice!) while we all dress up and celebrate the week!


You will have a bedchamber or suite that is just for you! Enjoy the amazing meals and grounds. We have exclusive use of the castle and its grounds for our six days and five nights. The impeccably trained staff will support us as we learn, laugh and grow together. Stephen and I have invited Pierrette Richard and Roland Bryar to join us in sharing the Getting the Love You Want program with you. We are thrilled to have this bilingual couple who speak French and English. 


Fly into London, England or Bristol  (Thornbury Castle is 2.5 hours from London)


Detailed Agenda
Sunday, 25 August, 2024 
3 :00     Tour the magnificent English garden and grounds 
4 :00   Welcome & Release 
4:45    Introductions  
5:15     Why Do We Fight? 
5:30    Stages of Relationships 
5:45          The Space Between Us
6:00      The Gratitude Dialogue Demonstration 
6:15           The Gratitude Dialogue 
7:00          BBQ Dinner and Milling Introductions

Monday, 26 August, 2024  
7:30.   Breakfast
9:00   Centering and Video
9:15    Our Brains in Relationship
9:30      Reactivity and Response Cycle
10:15      Tea Break or Tour the magnificent English garden and grounds
10:45     Re-Imagining Our Partner
11:00   Appreciation Dialogue Demonstration
11:30   Appreciation Dialogue
12:00       Imago Intentional Dialogue Validation & Empathy
12:15        Social Influences on Us
12:30       Working Break: Repressive Messages Exercise
1 :00.  Break
2:30   High Energy 
2:45   Lost Functions Dialogue & Debrief
3:00  Quantum Relationships
3:15    Childhood and Family Influences
3:30      Working Break: Unmet Needs Exercise
3:45   Unmet Needs Dialogue Demonstration
4:00     Unmet Needs Dialogue & Debrief
4:45   The Holding Position
5:00  Working Break My Childhood Profile
5:30  Hurt Child Demonstration
6:00  Hurt Child Dialogue
6:45     Closing 
7:00       Three Course Dinner
9:00    Stargazing with Hot Chocolate

Tuesday, 27 August, 2024
7:30  Breakfast
9:00       Centering and Video
9:15    Sweet Memories Dialogue
10:00    Working Break: Partner Profile & Frustrations
10:30    Break 
10:45    My Imago Match Work Up
11:00  Good-bye to Reactivity Dialogue
12:00    What is a Conscious Partnership?
12:15         Re-visioning 
12:30       Dreaming Tomorrow Dialogue
1 :00.  Picnic Lunch Break 
2:30   High Energy  
2:45   Re-Commit: Closing Exits  
3:00  Commitment Dialogue 
3:30   Break
3:45   Working Break: Caring Behaviors exercise
4:00     Caring Behaviors Dialogue
4:30   Re-Structuring Frustrations
5:00  BCR Demonstration
5:45  Time Out Guidelines & Repairing Ruptures
6:00  Amends Dialogue
6:45     Closing 
7:00        Three Course Dinner
9:00     Hide and Seek 

Wednesday, 28 August, 2024
7:30  Breakfast
9:00       Centering and Video
9:15   Questions and Answers
10:15    Appreciation Dialogue 
10:30   Break 
11:00    BCR Dialogue
1 :00    Lunch Break 
2:30    High Energy 
2:45  Re-Romanticizing  
3:00    Fun activities, Surprises, Caring Behaviors  
3:30    Break
4:00    Flooding
4:45    Savoring or Exploring Sex Dialogue
5:00    After the Retreat: Relationship Rituals
5:45    “Take Aways”
6:45    Closing 
7:00       Three Course Dinner
9:00    Scavenger Hunt

Thursday, 29 August, 2024  
7:30  Breakfast
9:00       Sleep in and Pamper each other 
12:00   Write Your Happily-ever After Love Story
3:00    Renewal and commitment ceremony
6:00    Photographs
7:00    Dinner, Dance & Party 

Friday, 30 August, 2024
7:30  Breakfast
9:00    Closing 
10:00     Check out

Thornbury Castle 


The castle was originally conceived and constructed by Edward Stafford, the only man to rival the king’s wealth and status at that time. It was a display of wealth and ambition that Henry did not take kindly to, and after Stafford was found guilty of treason, the king took control of the castle he so coveted. A brief, beloved retreat for Henry and Anne Boleyn, Thornbury Castle has since weathered the tumult of British history over the centuries. Today, it stands just as tall as it did in those days of courtly intrigue; renewed with care by its current custodians and imbued with the regal grandeur of its past. Built to impress the most powerful man in the country, five centuries later, it still impresses…

Thornbury Castle sustainably develops and protects their grounds and gardens. They grow their own herbs, grow their plant stock from seed or cuttings, enabling them to get the best quality stock without having to import. Over the last three years they planted 30 fruit trees within The New Orchard on the estate. The New Orchard is grazed by a flock of Boreray Sheep, which are on the rare breeds list and are currently classed as a vulnerable breed. Within their walled gardens they have a number of original bee boles; these are now filled with 12 bee skeps. These are traditional bee hives which were used during the Tudor period. The castle uses products that are produced in our gardens, such as vegetables, herbs and eggs. 

There is no doubt in our minds that this workshop will transform your relationship. 

Princeton, NJ
MK & BB

We have a passionate relationship but we came because we wanted to learn about Imago Therapy and heard great things about the Getting The Love You Want workshop. This process helped us learn things about each other we didn't know before and it just helped us have an even more amazing relationship. Thank you Michelle and Stephen!

Austin, Texas
C & D

This workshop helped us learn things about each other with safe and easy to understand lectures and exercises we did in private.

Austin, Texas
V. M. 


The Getting The Love You Want Retreat at Thornbury Castle


The Getting The Love You Want Retreat, all meals, and your romantic bedchamber is included in your 6-day, 5-night package. Also included is a commitment ceremony and celebration Thursday evening which, if relevant, may be a time to renew your wedding vows. The group has exclusive use of the grounds for the duration of our stay. 


Also for those attending in person, an ongoing support and a Facebook Group for at least 6-months after the retreat will help you maintain the skills you will learn and deepen your understanding of the pattern and your relationship vision. We want you to transform your relationship and sustain every win!


NOTE: We do not offer refunds, but an option is to transfer the retreat to another couple. If you cannot do that but we sell your space later we will return 90% of the fees. You will have access to a future online, live Getting the Love Workshop with us, online materials, and videos for self-paced learning. 


Questions? If you are not sure which package is right for you, hop on our calendar.

Schedule a time to chat with Michelle and Stephen here:

Calendar https://calendly.com/michelle-791/30min


Enjoy a Couples Live Seminar in the privacy of your home!


If you cannot attend in person, enjoy this couples seminar from the comfort of your home. You will not be seen on the screen and you will be able to follow along with us and send in your questions! Expect some special guests! Michelle will be available at the end of each day to interact with the group (optional for you to turn on your camera). If you are in England's time zone, you can follow us live. If you are in another time zone, the course will be available "on demand" so you can start when its convenient to you. You will also receive access to an edited version of the class. 


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  • Preferred option
    Couple's Retreat Romantic Bedchamber Package $12,999 US$12999.00
  • Preferred option
    35% off ($8,449) before August 20$8449.00
  • Preferred option
    Sponsored for Filming ($3500 US)$3500.00
  • Preferred option
    Online Couples Seminar (London Time Zone or On Demand) $295.00 $295.00

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Upgrade Your Bedchamber

Upgrade your room to a larger space for added luxury. Contact the organizer for specifics.

Rooms are assigned based on when registrations are received. 

Book early to secure a suite. 

Each bedchamber has its own ensuite bathroom and unique history.

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Agenda for Online Couples Seminar


Sunday, 25 August, 2024 
LONDON TIME ZONE  
4 :00   Welcome & Release 
4:45     Special Guests!
5:15      Why Do We Fight? 
5:30    Stages of Relationships 
5:45          The Space Between Us
6:00      The Gratitude Dialogue Demonstration 
6:15           The Gratitude Dialogue 
6:45     Interact with Michelle Bohls

Monday, 26 August, 2024  
9:00   Centering and Video
9:15    Our Brains in Relationship
9:30      Reactivity and Response Cycle
10:15      Break 
10:45     Re-Imagining Our Partner
11:00   Appreciation Dialogue Demonstration
11:30   Appreciation Dialogue
12:00       Imago Intentional Dialogue Validation & Empathy
12:15        Social Influences on Us
12:30       Working Break: Repressive Messages Exercise
1 :00.  Break 1.5 hours
2:30   High Energy 
2:45   Lost Functions Dialogue & Debrief
3:00  Quantum Relationships
3:15    Childhood and Family Influences
3:30      Working Break: Unmet Needs Exercise
3:45   Unmet Needs Dialogue Demonstration
4:00     Unmet Needs Dialogue & Debrief
4:45   The Holding Position
5:00  Working Break My Childhood Profile
5:30  Hurt Child Demonstration
6:00  Hurt Child Dialogue
6:45     Interact with Michelle Bohls 

Tuesday, 27 August, 2024
9:00        Centering and Video
9:15    Sweet Memories Dialogue
10:00    Working Break: Partner Profile & Frustrations
10:30    Break 
10:45    My Imago Match Work Up
11:00  Good-bye to Reactivity Dialogue
12:00    What is a Conscious Partnership?
12:15         Re-visioning 
12:30       Dreaming Tomorrow Dialogue
1 :00.  Picnic Lunch Break 
2:30   High Energy  
2:45   Re-Commit: Closing Exits  
3:00  Commitment Dialogue 
3:30   Break
3:45   Working Break: Caring Behaviors exercise
4:00     Caring Behaviors Dialogue
4:30   Re-Structuring Frustrations
5:00  BCR Demonstration
5:45  Time Out Guidelines & Repairing Ruptures
6:00  Amends Dialogue
6:45     Interact with Michelle Bohls

Wednesday, 28 August, 2024
9:00       Centering and Video
9:15   Questions and Answers
10:15    Appreciation Dialogue 
10:30   Break 
11:00    BCR Dialogue
1 :00    Lunch Break 
2:30    High Energy 
2:45  Re-Romanticizing  
3:00    Fun activities, Surprises, Caring Behaviors  
3:30    Break
4:00    Flooding
4:45    Savoring or Exploring Sex Dialogue
5:00    After the Retreat: Relationship Rituals
5:45    “Take Aways”
6:45    Interact with Michelle Bohls

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